Drift Destroys Progress—Here’s How to Fight Back

The Drift is Coming—Are You Ready?

Drift is sneaky. It doesn’t announce itself loudly. It starts quietly—a missed routine here, a rationalized excuse there. Then life happens, as it always does:

• A big project at work consumes your attention.

• Business travel throws off your routines.

• An injury sidelines your workouts.

• Your kids need help moving.

• An elderly parent needs your care.

These are real and valid reasons. But they’re also the cracks where drift sneaks in. Before you know it, you’re miles off track, wondering how it happened.

Drift happens when you lose connection to your vision and goals. It’s not dramatic or sudden—it’s subtle. Napoleon Hill, in Outwitting the Devil, described it as surrendering control of your life to external forces or routine. It often begins with small, seemingly harmless decisions: skipping a workout, cutting corners on your daily routine, or delaying something “just for today.” Drift feels comfortable in the moment because it lets you off the hook. But over time, these small choices compound into lost momentum and disconnection from the future you’re working toward.

You’re not alone. Drift is something we all experience, especially when responsibilities pile up or challenges mount. The longer it goes unchecked, the greater the distance it creates between where you are and where you want to be. But here’s the good news: drift isn’t permanent.

Dan Sullivan said it best: “The only way to make your present better is to make your future bigger.” A bigger, more meaningful future reduces drift, shortens recovery time when you do drift, and builds resilience. It gives you something to anchor to—a North Star guiding your actions and decisions, even when life throws you off balance.

This week, we’ll explore the connection between a bigger future and staying on track, why drift happens, and how you can use practical tools like monthly testing, anti-goals, and the 95% Success Formula to keep moving forward.

Let’s design a future so compelling that drift has no chance of holding you back.

Why Drift is Dangerous

Drift doesn’t just pull you off course—it erodes your confidence, progress, and connection to your goals. Left unchecked, it creates a cycle of frustration, stagnation, and lost potential.

Here’s why drift is particularly dangerous:

• Cumulative Impact: Drift starts small—missing a workout, cutting a corner, skipping a routine. These seemingly minor choices compound over time, creating distance between where you are and where you want to be. The longer drift goes unaddressed, the harder it becomes to recover.

• False Comfort: Drift often feels comfortable in the moment because it lets you off the hook. But this short-term relief comes at the cost of long-term progress, leaving you stuck in a pattern of mediocrity.

• Erosion of Identity: When you drift, your actions stop aligning with your goals and values. This disconnect can create a sense of disillusionment, making it harder to stay motivated or believe in your ability to succeed.

• Lost Time: Time spent drifting is time you can’t get back. Without intentional effort to recognize and correct drift, it can steal weeks, months, or even years of potential progress.

Drift creates a false sense of safety, but it’s stealing your most valuable asset—time. Every moment spent drifting widens the gap between your current actions and your goals. Yet with awareness, you can stop drift in its tracks and realign with the future you’re building.

Why a Bigger Future Reduces Drift

Drift thrives in the absence of a compelling vision. Without a bigger future pulling you forward, it’s easy to get caught up in short-term distractions, lose focus, and let the day-to-day grind take over. A meaningful, exciting future acts as an anchor, keeping you aligned with your goals and reducing the risk of drift.

When you’re connected to a bigger future, setbacks and challenges feel smaller because they’re part of a larger journey. Obstacles become opportunities to grow and refocus, rather than roadblocks that derail your progress.

Here’s why a bigger future is so powerful:

• It Creates Focus: A vivid vision aligns your daily actions with your long-term goals. It becomes easier to prioritize what matters and avoid distractions.

• It Shortens Drift Cycles: Drift is inevitable, but a compelling future helps you recognize it sooner and course-correct before losing significant ground.

• It Builds Emotional Resilience: A clear “why” helps you stay grounded during tough times, reminding you that every effort contributes to something meaningful.

Viktor Frankl captured this idea in Man’s Search for Meaning: “Those who have a ‘why’ to live can bear with almost any ‘how.’” When your vision is big enough, it provides clarity, purpose, and the resilience to keep moving forward—even when life throws challenges your way.

Tools to Build Your Bigger Future

A bigger future isn’t just about having a vague idea of where you want to go—it’s about creating a clear, vivid picture of what success looks like and connecting it to your daily actions. Tools like the Future Self, Eulogy, and SMARTER goals (concepts covered in the last 5 issues) make this process actionable and deeply personal.

Future Self: The Blueprint for Who You’re Becoming
Imagine yourself one year, five years, or even ten years from now. Who do you want to be? What does your ideal day look like? Writing down your vision for your future self creates a detailed roadmap to guide your decisions and keep you focused.

Eulogy: The Legacy You’re Building
If the Future Self is the daily compass, the Eulogy is the ultimate destination. It’s a way to reflect on the impact you want to leave behind. By writing your eulogy, you anchor your actions in the long-term legacy you’re creating, giving every step greater meaning.

SMARTER Goals: Turning Vision Into Action
Big futures require specific, measurable, and exciting goals to bring them to life. The “E” in SMARTER—Exciting—is especially important. Goals that spark enthusiasm and energy are more likely to drive consistent effort. Test your current goals: Do they excite you? If not, refine them.

Practical Steps to Build Your Bigger Future

1. Choose your tool(s): Future Self, Eulogy, or SMARTER Goals—or combine all three for maximum impact.

2. Make it vivid: Write in detail. Avoid generic statements. The more specific your vision, the stronger your connection to it will be.

3. Revisit your vision: Review it weekly as part of your routines to keep it front and center.

4. Go back to issue #109 of Harder To Kill and begin reading 2025 Planning series of newsletters.

Big futures don’t just happen—they’re designed. These tools give you the structure and clarity to create one.

The Role of Monthly Testing

Think of monthly testing as your GPS. It helps you stay on course by providing real-time feedback on where you are versus where you want to be. Without testing, it’s easy to drift for weeks—or even months—before realizing you’ve veered off track.

Testing doesn’t just measure progress; it keeps your connection to your bigger future strong. Each test is a moment to recalibrate, refocus, and ensure that your actions align with your goals.

Why Monthly Testing Works

• Early Detection of Drift: Monthly testing highlights trends before they become problems. If your results start to plateau or decline, you can adjust your approach quickly.

• Keeps You Aligned: Testing reinforces your connection to your bigger future by showing tangible progress—or revealing gaps to address.

• Builds Confidence: Seeing measurable improvement motivates you to keep going.

Practical Testing Examples

• Physical Metrics:

  • Argent Alpha examples: Body fat percentage, skeletal muscle mass, VO2 max performance.

  • General examples: Track your waist circumference, resting heart rate, or your ability to complete a challenging physical task like a timed run or a set of strength exercises.

• Performance Metrics:

  • Argent Alpha examples: Progress on Alpha 5 Standards and achievements in A3 (Argent Alpha Athlete) fitness goals.

  • General examples: Measure consistency in your workouts, steps per day, or even improvements in endurance activities like walking or cycling.

• Mindset and Productivity:

  • Reflect on your wins and challenges in a journal.

  • Review alignment with your Future Self and Eulogy.

  • Track consistency in habits like sleep, hydration, or focused work blocks.

How to Start Testing

1. Schedule It: Test within three days (+/-) of month-end. Treat it like “closing the books” in a business. A monthly account of your performance gives you insights into what’s working, what could be better, and what to adjust. Add this to your calendar.

2. Choose Metrics: Decide what’s most important to measure based on your goals—body composition, fitness performance, mindset, or habits.

3. Review and Adjust: Use the data to identify what’s working, what’s not, and what needs to change.

Monthly testing doesn’t just keep you accountable—it keeps you connected to your vision. Make it a priority, and watch how small adjustments lead to massive results over time.

Anti-Goals vs. Approach Goals

When it comes to staying on track, having a bigger future isn’t just about knowing where you want to go—it’s also about knowing what to avoid along the way. That’s where anti-goals (also called avoid goals) come into play.

Anti-goals help you recognize the behaviors, situations, or habits that can derail your progress. They’re like the map that highlights the rapids you want to steer clear of on your journey.

But while anti-goals are valuable for keeping you out of trouble, they’re not enough on their own. Transformation and growth require approach goals—goals that pull you forward and excite you.

Anti-Goals: Staying Out of Trouble
Anti-goals are about inverting your thinking. Instead of asking, “What do I want?” ask, “What do I want to avoid?”
Examples:

• “Don’t skip more than one workout in a row.”

• “Don’t scroll on social media during my morning routine.”

• “Don’t eat out more than twice per week.”

These guardrails are essential for maintaining progress, but they work best when balanced with approach goals.

Approach Goals: Driving Transformation
Approach goals focus on what excites and motivates you. They pull you forward and create the momentum you need to achieve your bigger future.
Examples:

• “Complete five workouts per week.”

• “Start each morning by journaling for 10 minutes.”

• “Cook three healthy dinners at home this week.”

Striking the Balance
While anti-goals protect you from drifting, approach goals are what propel you toward transformation. Over-indexing on anti-goals can keep you stagnant, but when paired with approach goals, they create a powerful system for sustained progress.

Actionable Steps

1. Write down one anti-goal: What’s a habit or behavior you want to avoid because it’s holding you back?

2. Write down one approach goal: What’s a meaningful, exciting action you can take this week that aligns with your bigger future?

3. Review your anti-goals and approach goals weekly to ensure balance.

Anti-goals keep you safe, but approach goals move you forward. Together, they’re a dynamic duo that helps you avoid drift and achieve your vision.

Overcoming Drift with the 95% Success Formula

Even with a compelling vision and clear goals, drift can still creep in. Life is unpredictable, and staying on track requires more than just motivation—it demands a system. That’s where the 95% Success Formula comes in.

This formula combines three essential elements: writing, sharing, and reporting. Each step builds on the previous one, creating a feedback loop that dramatically increases your chances of success.

1. Write It Down (42% Success Rate)
Writing your goals down increases your likelihood of achieving them by 42%. Putting your vision, goals, and intentions on paper makes them tangible and helps you internalize them. It’s the foundation of the process.

Using pen and paper can be especially powerful. Research suggests that handwriting activates different areas of your brain, making you more engaged and helping you process your thoughts more deeply. The physical act of writing also creates a stronger connection to your goals and makes them feel more real.

That said, digital tools have their place. If you prefer apps or online documents for ease of access, choose what works best for you—but aim to review and engage with your goals regularly to keep them front of mind.

• Action Step: Dedicate 10 minutes today to write down your goals for the next month, quarter, or year. If possible, use pen and paper to create a tactile connection. Be specific and articulate why these goals matter to you.

2. Share It (65% Success Rate)
Building on writing, sharing your goals with someone you trust elevates your success rate to 65%. Accountability amplifies consistency. When you share your goals with a coach, partner, or community, you create social reinforcement that keeps you focused.

• Action Step: This week, share one of your key goals with someone you trust. Explain why it’s important to you and ask them to check in with you periodically.

3. Report It (95% Success Rate)
Adding regular reporting to the mix increases your success rate to 95%. Reporting fosters reflection, learning, and accountability. By reviewing progress with someone you trust, you create a habit of continuous improvement and a powerful sense of ownership.

• Action Step: At the end of the week, report your progress to your accountability partner, coach, or group. Include:

  • What went well?

  • What challenges you faced.

  • Your plan for the next steps.

  • Ask for feedback on your progress and adjust accordingly.

The Final 5%: Consistent Execution
Even with a clear plan, accountability, and reflection, the final 5% is what transforms preparation into progress. It’s about consistent execution—showing up daily and following through on the commitments you’ve made to yourself.

This 5% doesn’t just get you across the finish line; it keeps you in the game. Execution ensures you stay in the Gain—focused on how far you’ve come—rather than falling into the Gap and dwelling on how far you still have to go. The Gain reinforces confidence and momentum, while the Gap creates frustration and doubt.

• Action Step: Each day, commit to taking at least one meaningful action that aligns with your goals. It doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to move you forward. Trust that consistent effort compounds into extraordinary results over time.

Why This Works
The 95% Success Formula minimizes drift by keeping your goals prominent and establishing accountability at every stage. Each step builds on the last, creating a system that not only helps you navigate challenges but keeps you connected to your bigger future.

With this system in place, you’ll find it easier to maintain focus, overcome obstacles, and make meaningful progress every day.

Recognizing and Addressing Drift

Drift often begins subtly. It doesn’t announce itself with a loud warning; instead, it shows up as small compromises, rationalizations, and distractions. A missed workout here. An extra serving there. A skipped journaling session because “you’ll do it tomorrow.” Before you know it, the routines and habits you’ve carefully built start to unravel.

Drift thrives in busy seasons and moments of stress. Work deadlines, business travel, family obligations, and unexpected challenges can all pull you off course. These are real, valid reasons—but they’re also opportunities for drift to take hold if you’re not vigilant.

How to Spot Drift Early
The earlier you recognize drift, the easier it is to correct. Here are some signs to watch for:

• Inconsistent Routines: Are you skipping habits that previously felt non-negotiable?

• Rationalized Excuses: Are you telling yourself, “It’s just this once” or “I’ll start fresh tomorrow”?

• Feeling Disconnected: Do your daily actions feel less aligned with your goals or vision?

• Feedback from Others: Have accountability partners noticed a shift? Are your language patterns reflecting drift—hesitation, excuses, or lack of clarity—instead of alignment with your purpose and goals?

• Progress Stops: Have you stopped seeing measurable progress in key areas? For example, if your body fat percentage has stalled above 15% or your fitness metrics aren’t improving, it could indicate that drift has taken hold. Regular testing and tracking reveals when progress has plateaued.

Why Drift Happens
Drift isn’t a sign of failure—it’s part of being human. Life is dynamic, and priorities shift. What matters is how quickly you notice and address it. Often, drift happens because:

• Overwhelm Takes Over: When life gets busy, it’s easy to operate on autopilot. You react to what’s urgent instead of focusing on what’s important, slowly drifting away from your goals.

• Comfort Over Progress: Drift thrives on short-term comfort. Skipping a workout, grabbing convenience food, or scrolling social media feels easier in the moment, but these small choices compound over time, pulling you further off track.

• A Lack of Clarity: Without a bigger future to anchor you, it’s easy to lose direction. The less vivid and meaningful your vision, the harder it is to stay connected to it—especially when life gets tough.

• Self-Sacrifice Becomes the Default: Many men over 50 prioritize work, family, or external obligations over themselves. Ironically, this neglect reduces both healthspan (quality of years) and lifespan (quantity of years), leaving you less capable of supporting others in the long run.

• No Checkpoints to Course-Correct: Without tools like monthly testing, reporting, or weekly reviews, drift can go unnoticed for weeks—or even months. Regular checkpoints act as your GPS, ensuring you’re still heading in the right direction.

Drift isn’t a matter of if—it’s a matter of when. But by understanding its causes, you can catch it early, realign with your vision, and take the steps needed to stay on track.

How Reporting Helps Spot Drift
The reporting step of the 95% Success Formula is one of your greatest tools for catching drift early. Sharing your progress with an accountability partner or group isn’t just about tracking results—it’s about identifying patterns that could indicate you’re slipping off course.

Accountability partners often notice drift before you do, offering a mirror to help you course correct. Consider these key signals:

• Missed Check-Ins: Have you skipped a scheduled report or update? Inconsistency in reporting often reflects inconsistency in action.

• Language Patterns: Are you writing and speaking like a man fueled by his purpose and goals, or are your words signaling hesitation, excuses, or a lack of clarity? Drift often reveals itself in how you describe your efforts and mindset.

• Diminished Momentum: Are you reporting less progress or enthusiasm than before? Accountability partners can help you identify whether a temporary slowdown is becoming a pattern of stagnation.

Reporting doesn’t just provide accountability—it gives you the insights and feedback needed to make course corrections early, keeping you aligned with your bigger future.

Action Step: If you’ve been inconsistent in sharing your progress, recommit to the practice. This week, schedule a check-in with a trusted partner or group and discuss both your wins and challenges. Use their feedback to adjust your approach and regain momentum.

Designing a Future You Can’t Ignore

Drift happens to all of us. It’s not a matter of if but when. The difference between those who stay on track and those who get stuck lies in their ability to anticipate, recognize, and recover from drift quickly.

A bigger future is your greatest weapon against drift. It pulls you forward, keeps you grounded, and reminds you why your daily actions matter. Tools like anti-goals (or avoid goals) add guardrails, ensuring you don’t stray into patterns that derail your progress. Monthly testing acts as your GPS, allowing you to check your direction and make real-time adjustments.

But these tools work only when paired with consistent execution. That’s where the 95% Success Formula comes in. Writing your goals down, sharing them, and reporting progress creates the accountability and focus you need to stay aligned with your vision.

The final 5%—execution—is what transforms intention into action. It’s the commitment to show up daily, even when life gets messy. It’s taking the small, steady steps that compound into big results.

Drift is universal, but it’s also fixable. The key is remembering that every step back is an opportunity to take two steps forward. When you design a future so compelling that it pulls you forward, drift becomes a temporary detour—not a dead end.

Action Step: Start today. Revisit your Future Self, set your goals, and write them down. Share them with someone you trust, and schedule time this week to test your progress. Your future isn’t built in a single leap—it’s built in the small, intentional choices you make each day.

Take the first step today—design a future so compelling that drift has no choice but to fall away.

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